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Where Does our sense of right and wrong come from?

In life, we all have to make decisions, whether they are right or wrong decisions depends on circumstances, time, place, environment, continually pampered thoughts and even your frame of mind and emotion at that moment.

What happens when people commit to the wrong thing that is clearly against the rules of a group or society you belong to, then there will be facing the consequences of their laws defined.

But Why Do People make wrong decisions or for that matter, make a right decision?
Knowing what I want- or do what do I need?
We must not ask what the world needs.
Asking right questions at right time leads to answering the right thing.
Most People aren't specific with what they want because they fear the feeling of failure if they never get it.
I read recently a lot about many things,  few are as said that we should allow room for error, but never allow room for giving up on those things that you know you must have.
"It does not matter what you do if you don't do what matters. 
If you do what matters it doesn't matter what you do."
Once you grasp that everything you do in life is a choice, there is no room to play the victim. If you choose to do it, let it be a favour on you and just stop thinking about whats wrong in experiencing. Just shift your focus to WHY you want to!!

In Life: "WHY IS IMPORTANT" 
True Thing said by and I Learnt from one of my Leads.

Another factor that may affect your sense of right and wrong may very well come from the people who are close to you – primarily your parents, siblings and the community you are born into. Parents own upbringing will be reflected on how they raise their child, how siblings interact will reflect on future relationships and how the culture of the community they are born into, will define values that are deemed acceptable or otherwise.
Though, other parents may think differently.

Your sense of right or wrong is based on your values, sometimes plain common sense and general knowledge when interacting with others. If you passionately believe an action is right, you should do it no matter how many people will go against you.

In conclusion, empathy is good and will help one make decisions that will be more acceptable to one's self and others. If you put yourself in the other person’s shoes you will find that it is easier to do to him or her what you would want to be done to yourself. In life the choices you make can either be right or wrong, you can’t have a right and wrong choice just like in a maths test, it is not possible to have a right and wrong answer. There are many different sources from where our sense of right and wrong come from. This topic – ‘Where does our sense of right and wrong come from’ - is hugely based on what your life experiences are, which includes factors such as family background, cultural norms and values, interaction with society, religion and even which country you live in. As you progress through the different stages of life, different factors that will steer your sense of right from wrong. Your sense can change.
Although we all have some set of mindsets which we follow, we must.BE Aware that We Believe In What We DO.We do things that we thought at that very moment, is THE BEST Then REST.

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