The Best Way to Predict Future is To Design it!!

The Best Way to Predict Future is To Design it!!

We are always worried about every small thing that will be happening to us or had already occurred. Rather than being grateful or living happily in the moment we are always thinking that what if I do this? Or what if it does not happen? What if we fail? What if we get into the wrong phase?

All possible or impossible, predictable or unpredictable, guessing starts in our mind, Just thinking of WHAT IF?

Now when we talk about our FUTURE, the same thing happens, we are the most uncertain person to answer what NEXT, or what would it be when you see yourself may be 5 years later or 10 years later or 30-40 years later. We don’t have any Idea!! We are completely BLANK!!

The things on which we do not have command should be on least priority because anyways thinking on it will be absurd. The only thing we can DO here is PLAN and DESIGN the way you want your future to be.
Now the very next question coming to my mind is HOW??

How will you plan or design?

What all is required to own it (So called "Designed Future")?

Why you require those things to owe you?

I think first of all we need to have an Imaginable Picture of

What I want? 

Write down, in as much detail as possible, like I want to live in (name of place), and I want my days to go this way, I want to dress this way, I want to loved, I want a car, I want a book, I want to eat this, that, I want job, etc etc.
When you focus on this every single day for at-least a while.

Then within less than a year, your life would magically turn into the pictures that "I" created.  Without any forcing or resisting or being attached to a specific outcome.  It happened by making decisions for self, in accordance with the way I would like my life to be.

All of this might take many years to learn, practice and be perfect.  It’s still a constantly evolving process but you’ve to finally narrow it down to what works very well for you, What you want.

Your next question should be 
Why I require those "I WANT" things to happen?

Again write it down, in as much detail, why I want to live in a big house, in city, near nature, in a village, abroad, can be anywhere you thought of.. and why I want my days to go happy, energetic, with touch of spirituality, in peace, in party, working for better, for giving, for better living, many more can be the reasons right!!  why would I dress that way, why would I want to be loved, etc etc...

When you start thinking of Why I think the only positivity comes into picture which becomes a necessity in one's life to live a healthy, wealthy and happy.

Have a purpose to all "I want" list so that nothing you do will be a waste.

How will I get it?

How will all "I WANT" will work?

Now make an overall estimation of each I want and follow it with a dead line.

Be effective enough to work for it. Each day, each hour make a step towards it, so that you will get closer and will reach once.

Life is full of triggers, 
Know this. 
But, also know you have the choice and the power to respond to those triggers in ways that are healthy and achieve better outcomes. 
In this way, you transform your life for good.
Make Priorities and take each I want as a task and just complete it.
Ask questions, what I need to do in order to achieve this "I want".
You will surely get an answer to your every right leading question by your own.

I will give a flow with an example:

Like if I say I want car, 

then ask why I want a car,

answer for easy long distance travel with family and friends,

now you have a purpose to buy a car,

how will I get a car,

the answer I will buy a one,

what will I need to buy a car,

the answer I will need money,

where the money will come from, 

the answer I will need to earn/save or take a loan,

okay now I have a plan 

Right!! Great!!

So it is easy now to view and execute.

JUST DO IT.

Review. To make this list work effectively for you, it needs to become a daily tool that you use to manage your time and you review it regularly.