LiFe LeArNinGs!!

 Self care is the responsibility of one to deal with or handle it elegantly, in quality humbly manner. Rare indeed is the nature that does not become a little more intense when its own affairs come under discussion. It is the cult of the self that is killing its within it the classic traits of psychopaths: superficial charm, grandiosity and self importance; a need for constant stimulation; a penchant for lying, deception and manipulation; and the incapacity for remorse or guilt. One who has never seek attention from people around or for matters from oneself. Suddenly starts to develop a habit to care for one makes the mind resistance to do the good to yourself. May it be that one decision or one step stepping out and getting most of what you always want. The thoughts you live from many many years towards perfect routine, body, shape, care healthy being is all there waiting for you to get started  But the monkey mind keeps on jumping and gets distracted from making the actual m...

Have you ever felt of something's that holds you back.. For doing some other things... Yes I m talking 

This topic itself is great controversial.... I thought a lot what it can be real-virtual or virtual-real ;-) These are the 2 great words that effects every day of common or any uncommon person... Is the life real... Or just we are virtually here to praise many people.. Is life virtual... Or just we are really living it..

Khup diwas jhale kahi lihla nahi Ag ho Vel bhetch nhi Kahi Kay sangte Kiti vel asto Ho vel asun nasto Ata tujhi diplomatic uttare nako Deu Ag tss nhiye Gapp Mg Kay kharye te kharye Ho gg Lihnar kadhi nivant vel bhetla ki Ag tu te baghitla ka kiti chaan aahe na Kay To movie Ti sadi To dress Ti lipstick Kasla bhari colour aahe na Ho Yee edi kahi yeta ka tula Mala kahi Tari changla banvun de na Nhi banvaych mala Yeee phone udala Ata Kashi banavte baghu Tu na rakshash aahes De na phone Banvtiyena ata Sang Kay khaychy Pizza, burger, panner pasanda, pavbhaji, pasta, Maggie, sandwich, juice, salad, pulav....... Areee gap Gharat je aahe tyatla sang Aai Ghari kahich ka nahi thevat.. Ghari bread butter cheese Maggie pasta asalch pahije Ho baba ja gheun ye Thamb kahi dusra nko banvu me gheu yeto mg banav asach jss sangitla YouTube var tasach Kuth jatiye Aai class aahe Kashala yevdhe kashta karyche Yedha

We all have been titled labelled in our life. Culture wise, Nature wise, behaviour wise, response wise, and many other more factors. Now it is a topic of how much does it affect in one's life. According to my experience we don't bother at that moment. Although Some might react and again they are been titled some do not react and again they are also been titled. So after been anyhow titled the mind starts believing the given title and you gradually start accepting the title along with it's denial. Yes you accept it anyhow but still deny on face. It's human nature to be more conscious and careful when it comes to yourself. Although we know it's not true or may be it is. Whether we accept or not but denyingly also our mind accepts the title in some of the corner of our great minds. Which makes me think why they called so. Conversation with oneself: Am I like that. No obviously not let them speak. How can you speak like that. Is it really like that??...

Feeling LOW Trying to cope up with my current situation but instead, I m going in and in, where?? i also don't know!! Got to have some motivation but Instead I went more complicating I feel like I m nothing... log kitna kuch karte hai.. mujhe nahi lagta ki me iss competition me jane ke liye fit hu... so better i will not try but as soon i I thought of not trying my mind is tricking me continuously.. why are u doing so.. may be u might be good just try it out once Trying is No more a big issue but trying and failing is my biggest FEAR... when i talk about fear i remember.. Great personalities who have failed a lot Manny times.. But Never quit.. should i also do the same.. ummm... what do u think.. how would u know.. when i myself is not knowing..WhATT ALL...

Running through ages just need more time to be with what you are being. As we grow old we realise that we are not going to be in same place as yesterday. Everything is going to be just a quick move. You don't even have time to think about what might happen or what should have happened. When I mean I would like to be just as I am. What do I really mean.. I also don't know.. What do I mean by be just who you are.. I know things it seems But don't know what does it really is. Who am I What am I supposed to do. And how will be I doing. How long do I have to deal with it. How much more time do I have to believe or to act. It's not that you are going to die or survive for all. Making a decision on what you would have wished to be just who you want to be. Reminds you of all the other pending work that exists in your mind that continuously updates I mean ur own life facts but I think that is the process of being able to make sure of being able to do it or not. ...

There are many things that you have no answer... Why do you do this, the thing you are doing Why to restrain yourself, to the thing you should or should not.. Why don't you speak up, etc etc I feel that "it's okay" Not to explain everything to everyone. No one going to walk into your shoes and make things you want to happen... So if you feel like no it's not the person you will open up to then it's okay. We need not to explain everything. One thing is you connect only to those who your understanding matches...no matter what all comes.. Eg: if you are in bus and someone's just much egar to leave first at the same stop that you also need to get down then it's okay to let him/ her go... nothing will happen if you be little late, there is no harm. And untill you have your work done.. that's fine!! Many times what happen is we say, let's not say it's okay and will see what to do...but what's the use, you waste your time and n...

Feels like I am stuck in this small room No space for dreams No dream to go out, dreamt but do not go Feels like noOption  while having lot of option to explore Study, travel teach this are the basic i want from don't know how many years though i am with  I like being but something is missing I am afraid to tell as we reach this far  and have not imagined any other  what and how the reason because i go little more is affection and little love I want to earn so much that I do not have to think before helping or spending or caring about myself at-least Now a days I live but there are conditions I spend but there are conditions These conditions are by no one  but are implied by me myself Shoutout to everyone who feels this It is that deep feel  Don't know when to hold and when to leave  What to expect and and what to give What to desire and what to not. What to learn and what not to What to see or watch a...

I am so scared to talk To ask , to react , to wait , to listen , to understand the simple things  that people easily converse about. Its not like I do not like to listen ,   Its not like I do not like to share ,  Its not like I do not like to question , Its the way I have been known, addressed continually I am expecting a lot more from my people that they should ask,  I would calmly listen, They should guess and  I would respond  There. is a gap of my initiative to respond to surroundings I love being in my own world until someone makes me realise I am doing something out of the world  Thats not the way to do. Thats not the time to be quiet. Thats such a simple thing to understand . But you know what you do not want to change . You have ego bigger than to converse right thing right at the face. You have an image of being good. You act as if they are going to give you an award. It is not the way to be. You behave fake . Why...

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ISSUE YOURSELF A "LIFE TICKET" Hidden besides the core shell knowing nothing, will probably be like she don't need magic to transform the world But there is weird bittersweet feeling that has to realise. The words are not there yet in my vocabulary to explain the exploration of the journey. The state of everything is good Everyone has something to teach, learn as much as you can. The treasures that words have, the help, the care and the truthfulness in eyes. There are so many events and occurence that judge you, life also judged itself in it's whole but it lost with beauty of unknown. Often fake and real is misunderstood, what is important to life is what life understands itself, always the dominance is not the way dear to stand by and face and then feel. You are so much more than you know. It's true life knows little more but it is exploring more than anyone could. Life is misunderstood. And Life misunderstood individuals. Life is issuing a tic...

When she needed the most she had to give the most He said he was in desperate of the miracle and he got one.. although it was little worse but that made him forget about the problem before is small than the problem now. No matter how much you try you can not win over your thoughts, your thoughts shape real you She dreamt of many things but she was ready to live with love and care he gave. They did not knew what to do, but they still did. He expected more which was not wrong but she understood but was not able to. It was never easy to say goodbye but both had said several times. He said they were mad for each other. How, He cared about her and she for him. They knew they could be great but had to go. She had many but....if this then what, if that then what.....still she believed all will be Okay He decided to care for life not for a while. They had heart such that they could hurt themselves each other but not to those who raised them. She tried to replace thei...

No one knows except that person himself How many efforts are needed  To do any small little thing that values How difficult is to be in state where  Everyone is blaming No one wants to accept No one knows why that person has disconnected How and what stroms might have attacked and impacted No one knows that why if a person is quite is quite No one knows if person is rude why he is so If person is ignorant then why it's so No one knows that if a person is friendly then why he is being so. Everything yes everything has some reason Ever that person might be hurt deep, cared much, been criticized, been judged, been labelled, been blamed, been ignored, been went through some very little thing that has made that individual behave that way  It's not your fault  Either it's not person's fault It's pattern of experience and also Because it's a loop of every single person  No one is exceptional. Everyone has this same kind of journey Which outcomes as...

Sometimes  it's Hard to  BELIEVE What has Happened What is Happening What will Happen.

Even when you do not have anything to give you are that eligible that you can smile and think good in even worst situations. When I say worst situations, again it comes to thoughts. So how to deal with your own thoughts. Many of us might think that it's all saying...big things, but when we actually urge to have those the time comes where we need to deal with unpredictable some predictable situations, still we try for atleast once. Assuming that "what if"!! I personally have experienced that life gives you what you demand for. Yes it actually works!! Now you may say that I never asked for a failure, or an accident, or a Heartbreak, or any illness, but still end up catch up with this things. I say that somewhere you had a thought, intuition that this might happen, never agreed upon because you were still trying, you believed up on or you were knowingly fooling yourself about the situations. Now one more question arises where you might say what about my those thoug...

A real story and expressions; You know its friendship when you start yelling. "My keys are lost somebody help me" and you have two categories of people who respond to it. One of my types of friends would be doing at this moment of time is sitting and making me find the keys even if we are missing a flight. The other Category of friends belongs to those who actually help you find the keys. There is also the third category to it...who don't care of what has happened and relax( The are acquaintances not friends). So the one who willingly doesn't try to help you and can miss a flight on the cost of making you understand the value and discipline is also as necessary as the second one who knows the situation and trusts that you wont do it again. In short these are the people who you go to at any moment of time.You dont require any reason for them to be there Even you build a large unbreakable fence around you.They will irritate you with so many things that...

WHAT IS LIFE???