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We all have been titled labelled in our life.
Culture wise, Nature wise, behaviour wise, response wise, and many other more factors.
Now it is a topic of how much does it affect in one's life.
According to my experience we don't bother at that moment.
Although Some might react and again they are been titled some do not react and again they are also been titled.
So after been anyhow titled the mind starts believing the given title and you gradually start accepting the title along with it's denial.
Yes you accept it anyhow but still deny on face.
It's human nature to be more conscious and careful when it comes to yourself.
Although we know it's not true or may be it is.
Whether we accept or not but denyingly also our mind accepts the title in some of the corner of our great minds.

Which makes me think why they called so.

Conversation with oneself:
Am I like that.
No
obviously not
let them speak.
How can you speak like that.
Is it really like that??
Next time when same title comes from another person you are like yes something is there missing
Why would every one tell like that?

Then you forget and then you recall again again and again when you are thinking about bad experences and good experiences.



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